It’s Not Fair

‘There’s plenty to learn about and be inspired by in this impressive book. Read it, absorb it, share it, and then get busy making change!’

‘There’s plenty to learn about and be inspired by in this impressive book. Read it, absorb it, share it, and then get busy making change!’

‘Groundbreaking … It’s Not Fair is an important and illuminating book about the injustices faced by children from adults, and how we can do better. It should be read by everyone who cares about creating a fairer world, whether or not they have children in their lives.’

‘Revolutionary yet compassionate, It’s Not Fair offers a persuasive and paradigm-shifting argument for children’s equality. Rickman’s deep research, forensic examination, and passionate yet practical tone make this an engaging and hopeful book that simultaneously challenges our deeply held views and offers radical new ideas for children’s inclusion in the societies they are soon to inherit. A must-read for parents, educators, activists, and anyone who wishes their voice had been heard as a child.’

‘This is a book steeped in compassion and humanity. It’s Not Fair offers hope that a kinder, fairer world is possible. I devoured it.’

‘ It’s Not Fair has the power to fundamentally shift our thinking about children. It’s not a parenting book, but it is one of the most important books I have read as a parent.’

‘Thought-provoking, thorough, and passionately argued. Be prepared to have your mind changed — this may well be the most important book you read all year.’

‘Brilliant and empowering. Through a detailed and perceptive critique of the systems, policies, and prejudices which make life harder for children, Eloise Rickman highlights how routinely they are discriminated against. It’s Not Fair is a call to arms for adults everywhere to deeply listen to, act upon, and amplify the wisdom of children.’

‘This wise and powerful book is a clarion call for children’s liberation from adultism that is beautifully written, deeply researched, and richly grounded in children’s experiences.’

‘Enlightening and transformative … In today’s rapidly changing world, where children face unprecedented challenges, Eloise Rickman emerges as a voice for change. Her book is an indispensable guide for navigating the complexities of caring for children in the 21st century.’

‘Persuasive ... A much-needed manifesto for children’s rights in a world that so often ignores their voices.’

Praise for Extraordinary Parenting :

‘This timely book has something to offer all parents — seasoned homeschoolers, those thrust into homeschooling unexpectedly, and those who wish to improve their relationships with children educated at school. Insightful, empowering, and accessible.’

Praise for Extraordinary Parenting :

‘An inspiring, creative, and helpful book for parents. It’s reminded me that there are simple tweaks we can make to our daily family lives to boost energy and morale.’

Praise for Extraordinary Parenting :

‘This book feels like a big hug just when we need it. Eloise’s words offer reassurance, calm, and lots of practical suggestions.’

Eloise Rickman is a writer and parent educator. Her work focuses on challenging adultism (the discrimination children face), championing rights-based parenting and alternative education, and helping parents and educators rethink how they see and treat children. She is studying for an MA in Children’s Rights at UCL’s Institute of Education and has a degree in Social Anthropology from Cambridge University, where she first became interested in how family practices shape society. Her first book, Extraordinary Parenting, was published in 2020. She lives in London with her husband and daughter.